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Working in the career industry, I see literally hundreds of resumes and
hundreds of people on a regular basis, and I'm never short of amazed and
fascinated at the degree of talent, training, and expertise out there.
And then I ask myself, "If there are so many above-average people
out there, why are so many getting below-average results in their career?"
If I could answer this question, I thought, I'd have the basis for a very
good article (if I could bottle it, I could make millions and retire!).
The problem actually has nothing to do with how well people do their
jobs; rather, the problem lies in the practice of poor career habits.
We go to school, get our degrees, upgrade our skills, and earn professional
certification, but no one ever taught us how to succeed. We stay at the
very forefront of our respective industries, but then shoot ourselves
in the foot because we either don't know what to DO with this knowledge
and experience, or we keep employing the same poor habits in our career,
hoping that one day we'll get a different result.
Well, now is the time to change, and the first step is to identify the
habits that are getting in our way.
Bad Habit #1: Lack of Enthusiasm
How many of you wake up refreshed, invigorated, and ready to take on
the day with a smile, an abundance of energy, and an "attitude of
gratitude"? My guess is, not many. And yet, the most successful people
in our world achieve what they do because they bring to it the right passion
and the right level of enthusiasm. The problem is, most people approach
each day with very little enthusiasm - they crawl out of bed, drag themselves
around the house getting ready, travel to work in silence, drag themselves
home, fumble through dinner, watch television, pass out, and then look
forward to repeating the whole process again tomorrow. NO wonder you lack
enthusiasm!
Solution: Do what you have to to wake up invigorated, and let
those first few hours set the tone for the rest of your day. Sing in the
shower, smile to the first person you see, tickle your kids, walk to work
(or at least part of the way), listen to music that gets you moving, walk
with your head up high (not looking down), and approach your day like
it's going to the best yet. If you really want energy, start an exercise
regime and improve your diet. It sounds simple, but if it's so simple
then why isn't everyone doing it? You'd be amazed what you can accomplish
when you bring this kind of enthusiasm and energy to each day!
Bad Habit #2: Wishy-Washy Goals and No Plan
Someone once said, "A goal is just a dream if it's not written down."
Many of us have goals, but they are in our head, they're not specific,
and we have no concrete actionable plan to get there - it's just something
we want. If you want it badly enough, set the wheels in motion by writing
down your goal and putting a sequenced, action-oriented plan together
for how and when you will achieve it. The most successful people always
have a plan - you should too.
Solution: Let's say you want to be the National Sales Manager
one day. Put together a plan for what you will need to achieve in order
to make that happen, and be sure to include a deadline for achieving it.
Then, break down what steps you can start taking NOW to get there, and
give each of these steps a deadline too. Then be sure to schedule these
steps into your daytimer or whatever method would work best for you to
stick to it. It doesn't matter how big or small the step is, as long as
it's on the right path, you'll get there!
Bad Habit #3: Poor Self-Marketing
Many people approach their career as if someone else is responsible for
their success. It's the boss's fault if you don't get a promotion or raise,
it's the market's fault if your resume is not getting results, it's the
interviewer's fault for not asking the right questions, and so on. In
order to be successful, you must realize that YOU are responsible for
marketing yourself, AND YOU HAVE TO MARKET YOURSELF! Too many talented
people either fail to market themselves, or try to do it using outmoded
techniques. Your resume and cover letter have to be spectacular and market
your value, you must be able to communicate this value in an interview
no matter how competent or incompetent the interviewer is, and you must
make certain that you and your achievements are known by the right people.
Once you employ and master effective self-marketing in your career, YOU
become the person in charge of your career and the doors start opening.
Solution: Make certain that all of your career marketing documents
are top-notch and up to date. If you feel your communication skills could
improve, take a class or get some coaching to make certain that you can
sell yourself at the drop of a hat. And lastly, make certain that the
right people know who you are, what you've done, and what you can do.
Believe it or not, your boss doesn't necessarily have the best insight
into your achievements and value, so let him/her know as you achieve them,
volunteer for projects that get you in front of top people, and start
marketing yourself!
Bad Habit #4: Trying to Do It All Alone
Somewhere along the way, while no one ever told us how to have a successful
and rewarding career, we nevertheless came up with the idea that we have
to do it all by ourselves. We don't necessarily think we need to fix our
cars by ourselves, or re-patch the roof, but somehow people think that
their own personal and professional success is a solitary venture. The
truth is successful people almost always have a supporting team of individuals
to help them reach their goals. They also surround themselves with positive
and enthusiastic people who can keep the fires burning inside - a negative
group can deflate you even faster than a positive group can inspire you.
Solution: Get yourself a mentor, a coach, group of colleagues,
etc., to help you achieve you career goals, surround yourself with positive
people, and get assistance where you think you need it. Essentially, you're
building what I call a Success Team - an invaluable resource to help you
achieve your dreams (to see our article on building your Success Team,
click here).
Bad Habit #5: Giving in to Fear
Without question, the biggest thing that keeps talented people from achieving
their goals is their own self-imposed fears - fear of failure, of success,
of embarrassment or humiliation, or of just trying something they've never
tried before. The fears and doubts that keep us from taking any action
will not go away unless you refuse to listen to them. Shakespeare said,
"Our doubts are traitors, and make us lose the good we oft might
win by fearing to attempt." It was true 400 years ago, and its true
now.
Solution: Change your mindset. Instead of thinking about what
could go wrong if you DID take action, take a good look at what would
happen if you DIDN'T. Really think about it and the consequences. If you
don't take a bold new step to get that new job, what will happen, or not
happen? Don't fear trying...fear NOT trying, because that's the real failure.
Be strong, be willing to fall down occasionally, be willing to learn from
mistakes, be ready to enjoy your successes, stay positive, and boldly
move in the direction of your career dreams. Once you start, it creates
a chain reaction and a momentum that will move you in the direction of
your dreams faster than you can imagine.
"Whatever you want to do, or think you can, begin it.
Boldness has beauty, power, and magic in it"
- Goethe
© 2003 Ross Macpherson
About the Author
Ross Macpherson is the President of Career Quest, a Certified Professional
Resume Writer, and a Career Success Coach who has helped thousands of
motivated professionals advance their careers. To receive more valuable
career advice, sign up to join his monthly newsletter "Career Quest
Café" by visiting www.yourcareerquest.com.
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